Wednesday, January 30, 2019

Achieve your goals: the simply way

I thought that I knew how to set goals. And I set many. The problem was that I was not achieving most of them. Very soon disappointment and sense of the worthless show up. So, I decided to figure out a what the hell was going. The following keys have made significant difference in achieving them:
1. Clarity. How do you know when you have achieved a goal? If you can not answer this question, your goal is not better than a vague preference.
2. Action. Action, no matter what. In the beginning, anything you do is better than nothing. You can figure out the complete plan after you get started it. But, start. Perfection in planning is the dead kiss. You need feedback from the real world.
3. Motivation. Why do you even care? Between other possible options, why this goal is important to you. It’s ok to be selfies here. But, you have to make sure that you want it bad enough. 
4. Consistency. Make a space with place and time to review your current progress, reevaluate the strategy, and define the next action. It works like magic. When you stop all the noise of the daily routine, you can soodenly see what is the next step. 
5. Fear. It is always  a constant, and never will go away as long as you are after something of value to you or that you have no experience with.  So, welcome it and work with it.
6. Beliefs. If you think you can't, you won't. This thought is almos gurante, so don't worry about having it. Start with simple letting yourself imagining “what if it is actually possible? How would it feel having it? What would I do differently if I knew I can have it?”

Thursday, March 29, 2018

Everything Start with a Decision

Yes, you can have it. And deep down you know it. Maybe fear to do it, blur your head. Maybe,  you only need a piece of practical advice. And here it is "decide to do it now". Start small, privately if you need it, only for yourself if you want, but start now! Later you can do it better. Later you can make it public. Later you can brag about it. What matter now is get it out of your system and start the process to make it real.